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time ago my dear friend Mary gave me a book by Deepak Chopra , titled "The 7 Spiritual Laws of good parent" . In those days I was back in his hand and now I'm reading.
I think that spirituality, understood as the innate human need, is one of the key things to be cultivated in the family and this book assumes that all parents need to have the "tools for raising children with the knowledge and understanding of the work of Nature. "I state that, at first glance, might seem like a book with religious references, in fact, simply opens the horizon to the spirituality that I mentioned earlier.
"Behind every creation the Spirit (or be) invisible, which operates through its" laws "or principles, which help not only the individual but society as a whole (...) because if a substantial number of these children will be raised with care by the parents (...), love and compassion can become the breath and existence ... life "(D. Chopra)
What is our responsibility as parents in a time like this? The success we want for our children must include the ability to love and to spread the joy around them : Without these values \u200b\u200bthe life of every individual is sterile and empty!
Our responsibility parents, in my opinion, is to understand which instruments are to be provided to our children to grow according to the principles of natural and positive as possible for the good of themselves and society as a whole. Basically what we want is that the world might just be better for them, no?
As Gandhi says, \u0026lt;\u0026lt; Be the change you wish to see in the world >>, so everything depends on us ... "Being a parent means to remember that they are also children and especially to remember to change our perspective point: this means raising children but also with to them and this is much more constructive "This law" and that's it ...
This afternoon my husband called our "first family reunion" : Nahele now has 6 years, we can finally discuss with him things that concern him, so the topic of the meeting was to plan a program of weekly savings to give way to buy a single game rather than many expensive, cheaper, and interesting but useless for a short time.
This should help us parents no longer have to buy rubbish during the week (filling the house of junk that interest him only for a limited period of time) and HE to cultivate patience, ability to pursue a goal and to be responsible.
'm so proud of my husband! I believe that this new year has brought a new awareness on our part. If "everything depends on us," share what we can to help others but also ourselves, in an exchange of "personal treasures," to mature, grow, evolve, self-education ...
In the book there are indications of reflections for each day of the week, 7 more, one for each day:
• first law ... everything is possible • second law if ... want to get something, Donal
• third law ... when you make a choice, change the future
• ; fourth law ... not say no, follow the current
• fifth law ... every time you want or like, plant a seed
• sixth law ... enjoy the ride
• Seventh Law ... are here for one reason
The most important nourishment and deep that we can offer our children is spiritual is much more effective for children to understand what we do if we do with them.
All this will help them, but most of all ourselves ...
Good stuff everyone!
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